Spoiler alert: there isn’t one.
Every so often, someone reaches out to ask me about my process.
And to be honest, I never understand what they’re saying.
When it comes to process, I believe there are two types of writers:
Those who absolutely freaking love talking about their writing process (and will talk about it even without being asked), and … those who have no freaking idea what that means.
I am absolutely … unequivocally the latter.
Like, the word process doesn’t even make sense to me when it comes to writing. People might as well be asking about my writing contingency plan or writing ultimatum. Like, I understand the word process in and of itself, but not at all within the context of my writing.
So when people reach out to ask this, I am thoroughly baffled.
What makes matters worse is that I appreciate everyone who takes the time to reach out and have a special spot in my heart for other writers, but this adoration only aggravates my confusion, because I want so badly to give them an answer, but I fundamentally don’t understand the question.
Are they asking when I write … where I write … or how long I write? Are they asking how many edits I make … whether I have a first and final draft, and how long I sit in between? Are they asking what kind of music I listen to, or whether I drink coffee or smoke cigars?
Sometimes I ask people to please clarify what … exactly, they’re asking, but even once we’re down to more specific questions (like those above), I’m still pretty baffled because I’m like … I can totally answer that for you … but I still don’t understand why any of that matters.
There’s no process for insight or creativity
Just like there’s no process for thought … play … humor … love or sex.
Look at it like this, you have to approach writing like sex: It’s supposed to be enjoyable … not stressful. If you’re trying too hard … everything will turn out awful and your partner (the reader) won’t be satisfied.
Here are the ways I DO think about my writing.
Rule #1: Just… do the writing
Like, do the work. Sit down … put pen to paper or your fingers onto your keyboard and make words.
This is the number one secret of writing … and the only real thing that matters. You can listen to any music … use any tools … wake up at any time of day or night … and sit at any desk in the world … but the only thing that actually matters is whether or not you actually put words down.
I start with the first word of the first sentence and then write the second word. I continue with words until the sentence is done and then I move on to the next sentence … It’s just hard to take questions like this too seriously as I don’t think there is anything magical in a writer’s process. You have to do the work … and I suppose … as you do the work … you figure out which process works best for you.
Just do the work. Write.
I write more than I post. I’m not saying this is the amount you need to produce; I’m only saying it’s what I do. I write when I feel like writing, but most importantly … I write even when I don’t.
I just can’t stress enough: there is no secret. 99% of it is: just write.
Rule #2: Know who you’re writing for
Or … for the Grammar-Nazis: for whom you’re writing.
I don’t write for anyone. I write first and foremost for me, but after that I have very specific ideas for which each piece is written. The vast majority of the time it’s about self examination or navigating the most common relationship questions.
Rule #3: A matter of making it good
Content … is this valuable … does this address an issue, problem or question a reader might have … and does it do so clearly … truthfully and/or in a way that’s easy to understand?
Craft: does it have rhythm or flow … is it a pleasure to read?
A quick word on Flow
Sigmund Freud wrote a beautiful piece about flow.
He wrote:
“The mental state of operation in which a person performing an activity is fully immersed in a feeling of energized focus … full involvement and enjoyment in the process of the activity. In essence … flow is characterized by complete absorption in what one does and a resulting loss in one’s sense of space and time.”
An ex-girlfriend once asked me if I get into a flow while writing, and I was like c’mon girl, lol … yeah … hell yeah … I do.
And let me tell you, it’s pretty much the best feeling ever. And when it happens … I know with absolute certainty that the drop is gonna be good.
But that being said: it’s relatively rare. A lot of my pieces go out the door with me having just focused but not having hit flow. I certainly don’t wait around for it … though you never get into flow first and then write … you get into flow only after starting.
And on that note…
A word on Inspiration
One of the biggest crocks of the universe is inspiration … or its ugly bastard cousin, motivation.
If you wanna ask me where I get my inspiration … this too will baffle me because I am like … uhhh… life?
Writing … for writers … is like breathing or eating. Like, it’s literally thinking, but then you just put your thinking down on paper.
So … inspiration is … everything … anything. We can’t not … we always are.
Going back to the sex metaphor … asking about a writer’s inspiration is like asking where do you get the inspiration’ to fuck? I mean… what?
And sure, there’s a degree of filtering … brainstorming … outlining or coercing ourselves to churn out the work, but for the most part inspiration just is.
That’s the long and short of it.
Sorry … not sorry … there is no secret sauce … not for me, anyway.
But to answer some specifics … in case y’all just want to know, I put together a little Q / A for myself to answer.
When
For whatever reason … writers always feel compelled to share what time they wake up, so I’ll tell you: for me it varies. Anytime from 2 to 6:30 am Monday through Friday, and maybe give or take an hour or so on the weekends. And I write pretty much first thing.
I try to publish something everytime I write … if I don’t, however, I’ll start on another piece.
Timing and Edits
Do I write a blog nearly every day… they must take hours.
I mean … they do and they don’t … some pieces take 30 minutes; others I edit for days. But at some point I stop.
Once I write… do I feel like I’ve done the subject justice? or do I sit on some articles for a while til I get them write … err … right?
Well, my work subject is each piece … I never feel like I’ve done the subject justice … but it’s bigger than that. My work … by nature, is always in progress, and always has room for improvement … no article is necessarily precious to me. They’re all imperfect, partial thought pieces.
Drafts and an editorial calendar
If you are curious to know whether or not I keep a list of subjects/titles, an editorial calendar or just a bunch of starts.
Lol … no, I don’t have an editorial calendar. I’m not even sure I know what that is. But if a calendar works for you … then damn … just do it.
I have drafts, sure … at the time I composed this blog, I had 31 drafts in my documents folder, including one behemoth draft titled “Ideas” which is exactly what it sounds like. And yeah, sometimes I start writing and decide I’m not really feeling it and set it aside for later.
But like … how do I write?
Do I outline … or do I wing it … am I a speedy first-drafter, or do I take days to perfect? How long do I sit in between drafts? Do I have a critique partner and when do they see it?
I don’t usually outline … I try not to be perfect … I often sit between drafts, and my readers are the absolute best critique partners I could ever hope for.
In terms of getting it down: it varies. Sometimes I start with a couple of bullet points and then build them out … sometimes I stream consciousness and sometimes I start with a block quote and build off of that.
In short … whatever gets it done. See Rule #1.
Images
Images … how long does that take me and do I have a special secret source?
Lol, Google … my special secret source is literally Google images and I shamelessly steal (until someone stops me.)
Music
Not usually in the first go-round of a piece … no … it’s hard to find music that matches my mental rhythm. Though that being said … it’s a real delight when I do. One time I rode classic guitar artist Ott Mar Leiburt through 5,000 words worth of rambling.
Coffee or Tea
Coffee, fam … you know this.
But honestly, my best writing happens during my second puff 😉
And you probably could’ve guessed that, too.
When it comes to “process”
It doesn’t matter what works for me … It only matters what works for you, as measured by whatever gets you to write … again, it’s Rule #1.
If you think you’re struggling with process… it’s because you’re really struggling with just sitting down and writing. If you focus on that … the rest of what does and doesn’t work will become apparent.
Sit down and write. Take note of what situation or stimuli compels you to write more (or better) and/or what holds you back from it. Do more of the former and/or less of the latter. And sure, research what others do, if that helps. But mostly, just write.
Give yourself what you need, then get out of your own way.
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